Some people believe they’re above the law. I don’t really mean the “police” kind of law. I mean the kind of laws between people, like civility and respecting of another’s wishes.
These types of people will without a doubt register the simplest of requests from people they claim to care about and then simply disregard when it doesn’t serve them.
I have a few people in mind when I wrote the above statement. And even in writing this I’ve made myself above that same law. Those same people wish things upon other people and get beyond pissed when others act like them and disregard their wishes. So by writing this I know it’s against the respect of someone else’s wishes to do so.
In all seriousness when I person says, “I’m done” what would the other person think of doing:
a) walk away. Give the other person the time and space they’ve asked for.
b) have an outburst. Possibly insult the other person. Make some kind of scene. And then walk away.
c) have an outburst. Possibly insult the other person. Make some kind of scene. And then walk away for about a week and then start the usual routine of acting like nothing’s changed.
d) disregard completely and continue with attempt at small chat.
I feel like I’m living in one of those horribly-written and horribly-played movies with some gf/bf combo of on-again, off-again. Too many episodes of implosion; I can’t continue to put everything that is important to me at risk because of how a situation is or isn’t handled. It’s not healthy.
